Catching up on the latest
Jun. 4th, 2025 05:17 pmBits of this and that: ( Under the cut. )
And that’s it for now. Tune in later for the next pulse-pounding episode.
Bits of this and that: ( Under the cut. )
And that’s it for now. Tune in later for the next pulse-pounding episode.
So, Tuesday (two days ago) we had a thing with a tornado.
( Less than dramatic. )
The ‘other thing’ I mentioned a few days ago, that interrupted our socializing with the couple from Canada?
Well, Susan got a text that didn’t make sense to her, telling her the time for class the following day. That naturally puzzled her, since she wasn’t taking part in any classes. She called back to clarify … and the sender apologized, he’d apparently got the number wrong, he was running a concealed-carry qualification course one town over, and assured her that there was room for her to join it if she wanted.
She wanted. I got my own CCL last year, and our current state of residence is ‘constitutional carry’, but an official CCL (particularly the enhanced version) still grants certain clarifications within the state, and is recognized by other states with which we have reciprocity agreements.
I accompanied her through the process, of course, mainly to be available in case she needed anything (i.e., her continuing mobility issues). There was the full-day classroom, followed by range qualification. It had been some time since I’d taken her shooting, and we’d both failed to appreciate just how many things she’d forgot, she needed several corrections and reminders … but, by the end of the range exercise, she had incorporated all she was being told, and she qualified on the first attempt. We sent off her application, and it arrived a couple of days ago, so now we’re both licensed to carry.
And, because she’ll be carrying in her purse (we’re still shopping for a suitable model), she’ll actually have a larger weapon than mine.
Makes me feel all secure and protected and stuff.
I went in today for what would be the last medical appointment (eye exam, in this case) before Susan and I were to fly out in June to start visiting our son in China, and possibly our daughter in Ireland on the trip out.
( Slight complication. )
I set up a list of things I wanted to accomplish, and yesterday was when I first set myself to really focus on that.
Then our daughter called from Ireland, and was on the line (Facebook Messenger, actually) for something like three hours. And in the evening, after I was almost caught up, we likewise got a call from our son Kevin, which was good for another hour or so. So I managed a number of things on the list, but not all.
Then today, Susan and I got a late start on the day, and some of the shopping I had to do wound up taking more time than intended. (Also, yesterday and today were both cooler than the current norm, which interfered with or negated some of the planned items.)
Tomorrow is when things really begin to count, it being the first day of a new month. Simply having a list has made me take care of more things than I would have done without it; still, I need to do more to catch up.
With both of us retired now, it’s easy to spend all day, every day, reading online and watching streaming TV and not accomplishing much of anything else. Better if we can manage more than that. So far, not a bad start.
Over the last month Susan and I were in New Mexico, I was checking weather reports and trying to balance our travel schedule so we would arrive at our current location 1) in time for me to keep a couple of medical appointments, and 2) after the projected low temps were high enough for us to be solidly into spring weather.
( We hit it pretty much perfect. )
Minor issues over the last day or so.
( Personal trivia under the cut. )
Here we are, then. The plan is still to get the driver-side cab window repaired Wednesday, proceed on to Tombstone on Thursday, and settle there for a bit to get the other things done. At least a month, is the current plan, perhaps longer.
So, let’s see how that goes.
Some months back, Susan and I traded in our Honda CR-V for a Toyota Camry; the reason was that the Honda was an all-wheel drive, which couldn’t be towed except on a full trailer, and the idea was that we could buy a tow dolly for the Toyota, to pull behind our motorhome so Susan could ride with me. ( More below. )
I’d put in a call to the VA back in my ‘home’ state, because one of my medications (metoprolol) had run out; I got a call back explaining that it had been canceled because I was already on one beta blocker (carvedilol) and it wasn’t advised to have two at the same time.
Okay. If I’m not supposed to have the both, it’s better that the first one ran out. It makes me wonder two things, though. 1) Why was I prescribed two in the first place? 2) Is it possible that the two, together, might have something to do with the palpitations that disturbed me a month ago?
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We’re still looking at moving over to Tombstone after this week, but all the weather forecasts show lower overnight temperatures there than here. Still better than we’d be looking at if we hadn’t headed west back in November, but I’d rather we were in some place where the temp doesn’t ever get down to freezing.
Finally, I put a pan on the gas burner tonight, and didn’t notice that a potholder had stuck to the bottom till the potholder caught fire. I didn’t react quickly or well, though I might have done better if the danger had been more dire; as it was, I moved things around till I could pour a bit of water on it to put it out, and that was that. Susan was calling for the fire extinguisher during this process, and I judged (correctly) that it wasn’t necessary to go that far, but overall her instincts were better than mine.
So, another day in paradise.
I picked up my son Kevin at the airport this morning, and Susan and I took him straight to the Convention Center. By the time Susan and I had finished a late breakfast, it was time to pick him up again.
We went on to the hotel where he was being put up, and helped him check in … and, once again, by the time that was done, it was time for him to go to the Bellagio where he would join the rest of his team. Then, so we wouldn’t have to drive back to our current location after dark, we came on back with the understanding that he would ride with his team on the return to the hotel.
So, even though we managed to spend a few hours together, most of it was riding to-and-from.
Things will even out. Tomorrow Susan and I check into the same hotel (she meant it to be the same day, but forgot that his flight from China meant he ‘lost’ a day during the trip), and will be there three days, which is as long as his stay.
After that, back toward Arizona.
’Cause this is the way we roll.
Our plans to proceed to Tucson got delayed while we waited for already-ordered medications to arrive at the spot where we were camped. ( Read more... )
Susan and I only had another week remaining at our current location, the intention being to go on to Tombstone for at least another month. That’s now being revised, however. The odd palpitations I mentioned about three weeks ago returned, and held on even longer this time; still not the same symptoms I experienced in my prior cardiac events, but enough to unsettle me.( Details follow. )
So, we’ll just have to see how things go.
Ever have your heart flutter funny for a few seconds, and then go back to normal as if that was nothing unusual? It’s happened enough to me in my life that I assume it’s just something that occurs now and then, even though I’ve never actually confirmed that.
Well, today it happened and kept happening, or at least the ‘funny’ feeling in my chest just stayed there. For hours. It went on long enough that I was already working out in my head how to tell my wife, “I don’t want to scare you, but I don’t want you to get hit without any warning, either, so we may need to get me checked out at the VA.” When I got back from my latest errand, though, she was doing a video chat with our daughter, so I just sat down with a margarita cooler and waited for her to be done. Once she was, well, I found the funny feeling was completely gone.
Moral of the story: alcohol cures everything.
*Okay, after two minor heart attacks — and, yes, they were very small, but 1) they were heart attacks, and 2) there were two of them — I know not to take anything for granted. Still, there’s a big difference between “This needs to be looked at” and “This keeps happening and won’t stop happening WHAT’S WRONG???” So, yes, I plan to follow up, but it doesn’t have to be this precise moment.
Yesterday Susan and I went to Mass for the first time since we started our latest travels. There were two Catholic churches close to our current location, and we had checked out both a few days ago. We went to the one I most liked the looks of (more old-fashioned, I’m strongly oriented toward tradition), and …
New Mexico, of course, has a substantial Hispanic population. Where we’d been living before, our church also offered a Spanish Mass; here, English is the ‘also’. That’s the Mass we attended, of course. Even with that, I was more than a little surprised that I only saw four people in the church who were obviously non-Hispanic; Susan and I were two of them, and the other two were black men. (One of whom was the priest, clearly from Africa, but both his English and his occasional Spanish were easy and clear.)
We may try the other church, just to see what it’s like, but if we keep attending this one till we move on, that’ll be fine. It’s nice to be back in community.
Susan and I were supposed to meet today with some family members she’s been wanting to see again, along with two that we only recently became aware of (daughter-in-law of one of the cousins, and her daughter who just started at the local university).
Those were the good things. Less good? the daughter apparently has severe gluten allergies, so we were to meet at some ridiculously expensive (and, to me, horrendously pretentious) natural-organic-free-range-virtuously-sourced-gluten-free-artisanal spot half a mile from the center of town. We’d already been there before, with the same people and for the same reason, so I remembered the place as charging a lot for, essentially, the preening/
What the heck, the food wasn’t actually bad, and we would be there essentially for family, and we have the money … particularly since, with Susan and I eating at ‘home’ (RV) to moderate our diet, we’ve been spending nothing on dining out. Still, we planned to have something light during the family visit, and then afterward go straight to our favorite Japanese restaurant for stuff we LIKE.
These are the compromises you make, and that’s being virtuous.
As it happened, though, the day started with sufficient rain (forecast to continue till tomorrow morning) that four of the planned attendees chose to opt out, and the rest said there would be no resentment for anyone else who elected to stay home. After some thought, Susan and I sent our regrets as well.
So, normal day for us, light munching, maybe a bit of luxury dining tomorrow after Susan’s afternoon medical appointment.
This is the good life.
I had a carotid echocardiogram yesterday, and will do my regular yearly physical on Monday, and that will be the last of the things I have to take care of. (Unless one or both of those show issues that require further addressing. Fingers crossed that we can skip that.)
Susan also has a quick appointment on Monday (afternoon, while mine is morning). She’s been on a weight-loss program — 25 pounds gone since she started — and will be picking up enough meds to carry us for some of the months we’ll be away over the winter. I’ve dropped 13 pounds myself in just the last couple of months, so we’re working this together.
Finally, the Army NCOs who straightened out my filing for retirement (only 11 years late!) said my first pay should come sometime in November. It arrived this morning, and was about 25% more than I had hoped for as the minimum. I still look forward to the lump sum payment for what I should have been getting since the officially recognized date of October 2013; no idea how long that will take, and I may have to inquire further to facilitate the process, but the results so far have been encouraging.
Meanwhile, Susan is still investigating what would be necessary for an RV cruise up to Alaska. We’d do it in the summer, of course — IF we wind up doing it — so there’s time to check out the details and make a decision.
Life is a work in progress.
Weather is mild, but so many leaves (and acorns) are falling, and the wind rattles them so much on our roof, it keeps sounding like it’s raining. We got a warning weeks ago to hook up our heated hoses to prevent freezing of the water lines, but we’re moving out in less than two weeks and I’m watching the weather forecasts; the projected low don’t fall under the low 40s, so I expect we can make it out without having to take that step.
We have almost half the large storage area cleared out — five boxes taken care of yesterday — but a substantial amount of that has gone into the smaller storage. Some of the latter will be sifted later and dealt with, but for now it’s a matter of bringing back the boxes and sorting the contents into three basic categories: throw away, give away (either to people we know or to the Salvation Army), or pack away (to keep or to deal with later). Susan has some discouragement as regards the slow progress, but we really are getting there … and the deeper we go, the more there is that we won’t be keeping. We won’t finish the large storage this year, but there are good reasons to believe that, when we come back next year, we can complete processing the remainder; then will remain only going through the small storage room to work out what to do with the remainder. I’d rather get rid of all of it … but, while Susan is more sentimental than I am about a lot, even I have things I’m not ready to dispense with entirely. We’ll just see how it goes.
Our daughter called us yesterday morning from Ireland, and Susan talked with her for nearly two hours. (I followed the conversation, and even took part in some of it, but it was mostly them.) This doesn’t come as often as we might prefer, but is always welcome. It didn’t hurt that our son called from China on his way home from work. He’d just been approved for a green card — after 10 years there — and was in good spirits because this will simplify a number of things for him as he goes forward, even though his eventual plan is to return to the U.S.
So this is where we are, till we’re somewhere else.
The good news is that I’m almost halfway through clearing our big storage space, throwing away or giving away lots of stuff, and moving some to smaller storage (to keep, or to sort through more carefully later).
The bad news is that the ‘nearly half’ means I’m about to reach the part that is uniformly-
On the other hand, I’ve located enough Rubbermaid totes full of yarn that Susan has decided not to buy any more till she works through them. (She crochets, and a substantial amount of space inside the RV has been taken up with the materials or partially-
I just hope my heart can stand all this excitement …