It’s not really random. I’m not a naturally thoughtful person (way toward the opposite end on that scale), so doing something nice has to be something I plan. Which means I have to plan a lot, until acting as if I were thoughtful becomes habitual. And, at some point, the artful imitation gets settled so solid, it kinda-sorta becomes the actual thing I started out imitating.
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Date: 2020-01-27 02:08 am (UTC)That’s the idea, anyhow.